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Mar 27 2016

Back in the USA!

Happy Easter!

It took some time to recover from the travel back to the US!  While I was not seriously ill, I was profoundly tired, and lacked motivation to do most anything until about the 9th day back home.  By then, my stomach smoothed out to normal, although I cannot indulge in coffee the way I did before and during the trip.  I am now at my second week at home and feel like its time to get moving again finally.

There is so much to do.  In addition to the normal daily family obligations and fun, the work is picking up quickly.  I have a website project for a client that I am assisting with, and about 15 other activities that demand attention this week!

Its good that I have such a great team now.  I spent a number of years doing project work by myself mostly and that approach has perils and benefits.  One benefit of going alone is that you do not have to wait for anyone else to get the work done!  If you are willing to work like a maniac, you can accomplish quite a lot, and make a lot of money.  The downside is that this is likely to lead to burnout if it goes on like that for too long.  Additionally, if you lose your flow, get sick, or whatever, the work derails, and you might not get paid!  It is difficult to maintain discipline and good work habits all by yourself for an extended period.  That said, if you have a money problem to solve like debt,  grow up, get off your ass and fix that now!

If you are doing a Herculean effort to do some project work to pay off some debts, this solo working approach can work fine.  I recommend paying your debt off as soon as you can, even if your life sucks for 2 years while doing it.  Notice that I put a guideline of 2 years in there…if your life sucks for much more than 2 years, you run the risk of this suck-i-ness becoming your new normal life and nobody’s life should suck over the long term.  I would say any grown up can apply discipline and work an extra job, start doing projects as a consultant (give yourself your own job), or whatever they need to for 18 to 24 months.  Make a plan, and then go do it!  In 2 years your bills will be cleared up and you will have proven something to yourself.  I highly recommend cutting the junk you don’t need out of your lifestyle to make this 2 year time frame feasible.  If you do not cut your lifestyle extras out, the timeline to paying your debts will be extended, and your life will suck for a long time, or your motivation will fizzle out before you complete the goal.

Whatever your reason for the extra working is, make a plan for achieving a specific goal in 2 years or less, and then go do it already.  You do not need TV, you do not need to hang out all night on Friday and drink beer…you need fix your finances while you can.

 

Written by midlifeawakening · Categorized: Travel

Mar 12 2016

Last morning in Mumbai

Without any real plan, I decided to see as much of the city as I could on foot.  I do not like to wander aimlessly, so I picked a shopping area as my target, and began the hike to Alfa at Irla Market.

For me, the only way I get to know a place is by walking it, or maybe bicycling, but I would not advise bicycling in Mumbai if you are new to the area!  The traffic is very dense, and foot traffic, bicycles, cars and motorized rickshaw taxis all blend together in whatever space becomes available.

I spent a good 45 minutes to an hour walking away from my hotel, first going towards the metro station, which I will admit I climbed to the platform for exactly two reasons:  First, I wanted to see from higher above street level; and second, if I went up the stairs on one side, and down the stairs on the other side of the metro platform I could avoid crossing the busy intersection with its blended mess of pedestrians and vehicles.  Here is a view from the platform:

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As I continued walking, I went over a bridge area that let me take a pic of a few angles.  The city really sprawls out, and things get built up quickly without much time for planning.

Off the left side, you see the buildings and streets…

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Kept on walking…it started to feel like I was in a Lord of the Rings saga with all the walking, but at least there were no fights to report (like in the Tolkien books).

As I continued, I came across another bridge, where I got to see the trains I heard about.  People use these to commute.  From where I was standing, the trains were in front of me and to the right…

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To the left, this was the view…

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Continuing my trek, I kept an eye out for interesting shops, and things my kids might enjoy.

My daughter asked me every day if I saw any cows yet, because she read that cows can be found anywhere in India.  As I spent most of my my time in the ultra crowded downtown areas, I did not see any cows at all…Until my long hike this morning!

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As far as the market, I think I never found it, or it was not clearly marked and I did not know I was there, as silly as that sounds!  I was exhausted and took a  cab back to the hotel!

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Mar 11 2016

Last day in Mumbai

Between the work schedule and some general travel weariness, I did not have much to post about the past few days.

It was a productive week, and enjoyable, but was too tired to get out and see much this week.  I hope the team got as much benefit from the meetings as I did, and that we all work together even better than before.

Since I have the rest of today until my flight home, I will try to find one last something I can do easily before leaving Mumbai.

 

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Mar 10 2016

Sunday is nice – off work, no phones

Yesterday, my coworkers and I went to do a bit of sight seeing in Mumbai.  First, we went to see an historic church built in 1904, Mount Mary’s Basilica.

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and afterwards, an important Hindu temple, Iskcon-juhu

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Finally, we stopped at a hotel on Juju beach to have a beer and snack, and watch the sunset.

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While I love my team and co-workers, it sure is nice to have a few hours to chill out and catch up on stuff I want to do and read!  Sitting poolside in Mumbai is not a bad setting to pursue this…here is a shot from the “life is good cam”:

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To do list:

  • Breakfast – Check
  • Relax – Check
  • Talk with my family – Check!
  • Do some posts here to update you on my trip – Check!
  • Take a short rest
  • Go find something to do for a bit

 

Written by midlifeawakening · Categorized: Travel, Uncategorized

Mar 05 2016

Indian food in Mumbai!

The first thing that many first time travelers to Mumbai are concerned about is if there will be food they like.

I will make some assumptions that if you are going to Mumbai that you are open to trying some new things, even if you are not a natural adventurer.  I think even the most particular eaters will find food to enjoy.  You should be able to find choices that are not spicy if you just ask for some help from the people who are serving the food.  The people I have met in Mumbai are very focused on providing an enjoyable experience, and will help you find things that are less spicy if that is your preference.

I am no expert in Indian cuisine, but I will share some of the things I have tried and enjoyed my first trip to Mumbai.

Samosa – Fried pastry type item, usually stuffed with spiced potatoes, onions and such.  It is spiced for flavor, but not spicy-hot at all.  Try it with side of chutney!

Samosa is in front right of this picture!

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Dosa – Think of this as a very thin pancake like item, often stuffed with a filling of vegetables, but can be just the thin folded item with no stuffing.  Try with coconut chutney if available for a nice treat, that is easy for Westerners to enjoy!  Pictured with a mint chutney, coconut chutney, and a tomato based as well!

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“Indian coffee” – Give yourself a break from Starbucks and black coffee and give this a whirl.  Its rich, it has some milk in it, and a light froth sometimes at the top.  If you really like coffee, I think you will like this!

Chole – This is made with chick-peas/garbanzo beans and has some spice in it, but not hot like some dishes.  The chole I had was more spiced with cumin than it was cayenne, in case that helps at all.

Many dishes are served with rice, so the trick to remember is this:  If you get yourself in too deep with something that is too spicy, just mix in more rice, or ask for naan to go with it to cut the heat!

 

 

 

Written by midlifeawakening · Categorized: Travel, Uncategorized

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